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Culture
and Communication: An Overview
CULTURE
While
there are three countries that claim the language of Persian to
be their official language, the majority of Persian speakers are
Iranian. Thus, the term "Persian" generally refers to
the Iranian in their specific culture. However, there is significant
cultural overlap between the Iran, Tajikistan, and Afghanistan cultures,
especially amongst those that practice the Islamic faith. This site
specifically deals with the personal culture of a Persian speaking
student, in order to inform the teacher how to best communicate
with their Persian students. For more general cultural information
in Iran, Tajikistan and Afghanistan, please try one of these links:
Please
click on the region for broadly defined cultural information
NOTE:
The majority of the following cultural information is based on the
research by Massoume
Price, and is used with her permission.
While contemporary
Persian culture is a mix of modernized ideals and traditional values,
especially in the larger cities, it is generally class based and
patriarchal. Class is determined mainly by three factors: income/financial
status, family genealogy, and more recently, modernity. Iranian
society takes the obligations of status very seriously. There is
a defined division of labour:
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MALE
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FEMALE
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domain: (work outside the home) |
Domestic
work: (work inside the home) |
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Highly trained/paid
positions in sophisticated work environments
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Lesser
trained/lesser paid positions in sophisticated work environments |
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lower classes in Persian society generally regard females as inferior,
the more modern work environments are working to eliminate gender
discrimination. Those placed in the highest social classes are obligated
to rise to their positions and retain them by fulfilling obligations
towards the inferior classes. This will ensure their support and respect.
Most Persians
follow the Islamic faith, but can be divided into two distinct groupings,
that act as a continuum; both observe Islam's codes of behaviour
but in varying degrees:
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MODERN
MUSLIM CULTURE
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TRADITIONAL
MUSLIM CULTURE
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choice
marriages, but may choose to
have an arranged marriage
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arranged
marriages, with usually no choice;
it is a family's decision
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may
not limit their diet and may drink alcohol
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do
not eat pork and do not drink alcohol
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choice to dance
at parties, and
choice to observe religious ceremony
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may
not dance, may avoid shaking hands
with opposite genders, will observe
religious ceremony
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women
and men openly socialize
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women
and men only socialize within the marriage or concubine relationship,
women become extremely uncomfortable when approached by males
in public
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women choose
their dress, and
may choose to wear makeup
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women
wear conservative, traditional clothing, often completely
covering their whole body
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- It becomes apparent
through the Persian's behaviour, dress, and interaction how traditional
or modern they are, and what behaviour to expect in reaction to
an outsider. One may even be cued as to their social class, as
upper classes are expected to dress more expensively and to own
more material showy items.
- Dressing formally
is regarded as respect, and Persians may be offended by lack of
effort by strangers or outsiders to dress in suits, dresses, and
nice shoes. Informal dress is reserved for intimate family gatherings.
Many Persians refuse to wear ties, as they believe it to be a
'western' custom. Many associate a beard with political alliance
to one national party and thus avoid growing a full beard.
- Persians generally
love to entertain, but it is expected that all in attendance will
behave in a quiet manner. The higher the social class, the more
elaborate the party. General courtesy and manners are insisted
upon, especially at mixed parties. The host and her daughters
serve the food and tea, and insist that guests partake. This public
insistence is known as 'tarof.' Guests can refuse politely. Public
promises of service or gifts by Persians happen commonly, and
are understood to not be genuine.
- Persians respect
their elderly, and are given high status. Often they are referred
to in third person pronoun. They are consulted in most important
affairs such as family arranged marriages.
- The Persian culture
is highly patriarchal, though many of the following long-standing
gender divisions are now being challenged by westernized cultural
thought or financial necessity:
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Men
are mainly concerned with financial decisions and consult
other males for financial advice, rather than their spouses
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Women
bear children and manage the home
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Male
children have more freedom than female children
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There
is no stigma for males to have sex before marriage but female
virginity is still insisted upon by a large portion of Persian
society
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Men
inherit property, and can be favoured in divorce rulings and
custody battles
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Men
are mainly concerned with financial decisions
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COMMUNICATION
NOTE:
The majority of the following communication information is based
on the research by Professor
William Beeman, (of Brown University), and is used with his
permission.
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| The communication process
amongst Persians continually enforces the social class stratification,
where the speaker is constantly aligning him/herself to the listener
through specific language conventions. One specific convention, an
"inside/outside" social/spatial division, while not unique
to Iran, (also found in Indonesia, Japan), is predominant in most
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INSIDE:
BATEN
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OUTSIDE:
ZAHER
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PHILOSOPHICAL
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Seat
of strongest personal feelings
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Realm
of controlled expression
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GEOGRAPHICAL
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Place
to allow freedom of expression. (Private/Domestic)
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Realm
of corruption to be either manipulated/avoided.(Public)
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Both Persian women and
men are most intimate with family members when in their home. It
is a safe place to allow the most personal of feelings to be displayed.
In contrast, when in the outside realm, one's true feelings must
be concealed, and the proper "public" code must be honoured
in one's choice of words. Those who share the same social class
can use "inside" language more freely than those who are
in differing stratifications.
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There are common linguistic
signals that are used between Persians in an interaction to convey
their social status. They may choose stylistic variation of sentences,
(higher class using "command" sentences), or pronoun alteration,
(lower class referring to oneself as "slave"). Through
specific use of verbs and pronouns, and using stylistic inside/outside
language, Persians accomplish three cultural conventions:
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Inequality |
Establish
the status of the other by raising or lowering own status
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"I
went"
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"Slave
went"
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"I
suggest"
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"I
command"
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Express Emotions |
Violate basic
conventional language interaction to convey emotion by switching
their inside/outside language
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Son:
"I'm home."
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Mother:
"It is nice that Your Highness decided to present
Himself."
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Intensify appropriate communication behaviour. |
Use language and
behaviour that overstresses the social inequality in an outside
situation. (Uses inside behaviour in an outside situation)
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Scenario:
An employer is firing an employee for poor workmanship.
The employee begs to keep his job. When he does not
receive the respect or answer he desires from the employer
he switches his "Sir" to "Uncle,"
a more familiar term, and breaks down in tears at the
prospect of the job loss. Seeing the emotional outburst,
the employer is moved to consider giving one last chance
to the employee, as he becomes convinced that the employee
is sincerely distraught.
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There is also an identifiable
form of communication in culturally identified body movements. In
outside/zaher situations, one's body movements are restricted.
The body is stiff and upright, the hands are usually clasped together
in front of the body, and eye contact (especially cross-gender)
is avoided. It is considered rude to have one's feet pointing forward
when sitting on the ground. In inside/baten situations, amongst
closest family members, there is a general loosening of body movements.
The individuals may lounge more comfortably.
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